I don't know if the people who follow me through this blog or other places read this, but this is how i feel; it will be a great thing when people read this

For further reading, i respect other people point of view and i do learn my religion much that i can see the beauty of marriage but i also can see the disaster of marriage if we don't follow the guide.

Many people think less ( in my environnement) people especially women/girl who have no partner in life, everyday, they ask people who choose single life

"when are you going to get married?" 

Seriously people, if you ask it everyday or without knowing with other intention in your mind, i would call it as a rude question, that's her life choice and she/he might probably happy with the way it is. So what if she is  married or  not? are you trying to know her/him better, you can find other question than that.

If you ask them without trying to persuading your point of view, it is fine but if you keep asking; you're only making them feeling annoyed by your thought.

Let's be open minded, there's some people who dedicate their life to other thing than what so called relationship. yes being married makes you feel complete if your partner guide you through the good life in this world and in Hereafter, you might even more blessing if you choose this one, but i don't think people who doesn't choose this kind of life is miserable if they have happy life or even life for bigger purpose and doesn't violate any rule

Why people can understand this? they not follow the relationship thing not because they are ugly or nobody wants them, they are trying to understand what best in life from them and it might be single is a choice

Who said that the single person doesn't want to accept family responsability?

I do know that kind person who said it, but kindly take a look, the single person who try hard to built orphanage with all their might and serve them by the faith that the orphan is like their own child and treated with kindness and justice for humanity and God, are you still saying that this kind person who leads a single life is less  valued than married people? i don't think so and may God bless them!

Nowadays, many magazines, songs, movies talking about love one , categorized the word of love in very smaller interpretation; means that love between man and woman is the greatest..and i said to my self since i was child....RUBBISH. Love definition is greater than that. I do respect love definition in bigger terms.

If love between men and women is the greatest why we still can see so many divorce? but when you love your God, you will hold something stronger?do not categorized love in that smaller box and talling people with single life is a sin, your marriage can also become a sin if you don't even follow the rule and keep hurting your partner.

I might be a little extremist to say this, but i'm talking what i have in mind and try to talk it in a good way, i don't support anyone to be single, i only ask, kindly think ing a lot about your future and search the best one before you found your partner, if you don't find one, don't be sad if anyone keep talking to force you in relationship, they are not living your life at all. being single, married or in relationship is truly your choice, get married if you think that your partner will makes yu better person, but if it's not leave it, don't follow it just because you stick in the name of Love or even other force you to do that, it will only drags you to miserable life or in even hell.